I am so lucky to have a wonderful circle of friends who I consider my extended family. Many of them are already amazing mothers and fathers who can’t wait to share their parenting tips with me and welcome another child into our lives.
A few of my friends wanted to share letters with you:
From Wendy (Wendy and I met the first day of college and became the best of friends)
Debbie has been my best friend since the day I met her over 20 years ago. Like everyone who meets Debbie, I immediately adored her. Debbie is sweet, smart, kind compassionate, funny, and loving. One of my favorite things about Debbie is her ability to always look on the bright side and find the good in every person and situation. She longs to be a mom, to love unconditionally, to teach, to inspire, to instill values, as well all of the other amazing things that go along with motherhood. Having known Debbie for a very, very long time, I cannot think of anyone I know that would make a better mother than her. Certainly, my whole family is so excited for Debbie, and we promise to embrace her child as our family and to love him or her forever, just as she loves our family unconditionally.
From Erin (Erin and I met at work and she instantly became one of my dearest friends)
I have been fortunate enough to call Debbie one of my closest friends for the past 10+ years. Debbie is one of the most genuine, fun-loving and caring people that I know. Debbie's connection with her family and their strong value system is a common bond that we share and cherish. Debbie's relationships with her friends' families is a priority in her life as well. I have watched and admired these relationships from afar, until most recently with the birth of my son, Griffin. Now seeing her affection up-close, my husband and I are so grateful Griffin will grow up with Auntie Debbie as a role model in his life. I have no doubt that Debbie will create a wonderful home for a child, one that will be full of love, laughter, and rich experiences. And, just as I am so lucky to call her my friend, a child will be so incredibly lucky to call her their mother.
From Diane (Diane's family moved on my block when we were 5 years old and she has been one of my closest friends ever since)
No matter what the situation, Debbie has always been there for me. She has consistently been a devoted, trustworthy, cheerful, and giving person. I have seen firsthand with my own children how much they are able to relate and enjoy being with Debbie. She gets on their level, listens to them, and interacts in such a loving manner that I know Debbie will be a fabulous parent. Her warmth, generosity, and fun-loving personality always shine through and are examples of why Debbie will be an amazing mom! She has a strong head on her shoulders and a wonderful, supportive family who are there for her. Debbie's parents have brought her up with strong values and to always see the best in people. Debbie has a heart of gold and any child would be truly lucky to call her mom!
From Janet (Throughout our 20 years of friendship, Janet and I have been co-workers, roommates and the closest of friends)
Debbie is the perfect combination of all the qualities that matter most in a Mom. My kids love when Aunt Debbie visits because she makes them giggle and laugh like no other! She’s always happy to get down on the ground and play whatever silly game they're playing or dance around or play ball outside. She is the first person I call when I'm having a bad day, because somehow she's always able to remind me of what matters most in life. Any child would be so very lucky to have Debbie as a Mom.
I’m also lucky to be surrounded by my friends' happy, kind and loving children who are so excited to welcome a new little friend with open arms.
My friend Wendy's twin daughters also wanted to share letters with you:
Have you ever met a great mom? Well if you haven't, you should meet Debbie. I think Debbie will be a great mom because she cares for others. When I get hurt she comes running to see if I'm ok. I think Debbie will be a great mom because she's always doing crafts or playing games with us.
-Madison, age 8
I think Debbie is a sweet woman and is trustworthy to be a great mom forever. She is very sweet and loves people. She loves kids. She loves me and I'm a kid. She loves all kids I know.
-Mackenzie, age 8
MY CONTACT INFORMATION
Call or text: 347-702-2204
Call toll free: 877-600-4973
Email: debbiesfamily11@gmail.com
You are also welcome to contact my adoption lawyer, Rebecca Mendel, at 800-278-5430 or rmendel@lawrsm.com.